Hello again!
I managed to replace the pot and tried tweaking the silver pots a little. No success as of yet. I tried the measurements from the laser swap guide but to no avail.
I can get an audio cd to spin continuously and I can also get the laser moving a little bit. Sometimes there will be a bit of a buzzing sound from the headphone port but it doesn't seem to be any kind of actual data, probably just noise and static. I tweaked vr102 and 104 until there was no screaching or whining anymore and it sounded like a cdrom is supposed to sound (in my opinion).
Any tips? What about the pot on the laser assembly? Any value I could try setting it to? I haven't found any measurements regarding that part, only people saying that it's best to keep your hand off because fiddling with it might burn out the laser. Since I had to replace it though, some pointers would be extremely helpful. I had to settle for a 2.5k pot btw. They didn't have 2.2k for some reason.
Thanks a lot for the help guys! I really hope someone can help me with this.