It is not Paypal, it is ebay, and it is not even ebay, it is the "New" owners of ebay who also brought paypal. So how can we defeat paypal? Well their are a couple of other pay services out their, and the sellers just need to hint they can send payment another way.
However me sending a money gram costed me $10-$20 from last I could remember, and nobody wants to cof up a $1.06 cents for a Money order ( even if we use them to pay bills ).
Then the other thing is debit and credit cards. Paypal is the most cheapest method of sending or recieving money, for buying garage sale
items, or avoiding credit card fees.
However paying with credit cards allows you to buid credit, and all you have to do is walk up to the bank, or deposit slot and hand payment in
person.
All of money stored in paypal is really divided by FDIC ( or is it FICD ) banks. I do not know what is so special about these banks, asides that any money you deposited in paypal will be in those banks.