Bruh, that doesn't sound very consensual.
All you fusspots. My first bj was from a massive woman. I was 16 and I met a very large lady who said she was 26 but I was told she was a lot older at a party who took me out to the back garden and threw me on a chair and pulled my trousers down without saying a word. Then again in the toilet. She wanted to take me back to her place but my "friends" dragged me out of the taxi saying she was too fat and a cradle snatcher. I hate them to this day.
Those people were not your friends. Unless they each throw you in a chair and pull down your trousers, replicating the act