I think I've figured this sniping thing out. Its a classic Man Versus Self situation.
The reason you can't just bid your max and walk away is that you don't actually know what your max is. You should. You need to know yourself before you can know the world around you.
And here's the real mind f*ck...
Most of the people complaining about snipers are....
...are you ready for this...?
...they themselves are the snipers as well. Its like Blade Runner up in this bitch!
Seriously, three morons bid 32 times in the last 5 minutes of an auction, all three of them complaining that the others are snipers. Like crabs in a f*cking bucket, I tell you.
Figure out what your max bid is. Your max for what you will pay. Maybe its $20, maybe its $22.50, maybe is $225,250, whatever it doesn't matter. Enter the value, walk away, either win or lose. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT ANY OTHER EBAYER DOES. If you truly bid your max, then you were truly outbid, and always would be, regardless of how many people bid what and when.
Its really is that simple. It really really really is.
Anything else is like...that guy you know who is always moving the gear lever in his automatic transmission-equiped car for no apparent reason.