Why isn't this topic in General Discussion?
I have no problem being outbid. What I hate are the private offers and "this-item-is-no-longer-available" bullshit that's running rampant. (I was going to bid on
this - nope.) It's a symptom of increasingly desperate, impatient buyers as well as cowardly sellers who don't know what their shit is worth or have any faith in the auction system and its legion of snipers.
Furthermore, whenever masses of idiots violate policy to cheat ebay out of their fees, ebay retaliates with some stupid new policy that makes it worse for everyone. Case in point: extremely low limits on flat-rate shipping that f*ck casual sellers that haven't invested in a scale (particularly Canadians or anyone with an item that weighs more than ebay thinks it should weigh) or shipping costs now being included in closing fees. These private offers/early closures will either result in higher up-front listing fees, higher paypal fees, more limitations on buyer/seller communication, more censorship, hurdles to legitimate early closures, or all of the above.