You can have a surface mail shipment insured and registered with a tracking number, it only costs around $5 extra. The tracking, whilst not as comprehensive as EMS, does show you when your item has boarded the ship and when it's arrived at its destination country.
I typically receive surface mail in 6-10 weeks, I've never had to wait a full 3 months.
You can get away with sending a console but the package will get knocked around a lot, and will most likely have heaps of heavy packages thrown on top of it, so make sure that whoever is sending it packs it extremely well.