Kinda philosophical question for this forum and I dunno if people want to dig deeply to find an answer for you Soops..
I am hoping a good many on this forum are bohemian and don't conform to peer pressures and able to live and dress the way they like.
I guess it all depends on what you allow to enter into your head.
For me currently I guess it is down to university, work colleagues, meeting other students from different backgrounds, cultures and being fortunate in having some great lecturers.
As for what you want to absorb into your gray matter a lot is also down to the visual language and experiences you filter through. For me a lot comes down to Asian and European designs, but I also love things from an archaic time ie; renaissance, buddhism and christianity to things from madernity ie pop culture and video games (importing scene during the pc engine, megadrive and super famicom era) and time periods especially the 1970's and 1980's which were my childhood.
Also reading up on individuals that had balls to challenge adversity (ie Ghandi, Martin Luther King) and groups and movements that were very avant garde in thinking such as; Situationists Internationale, Bauhaus, surrealism, dadaism and futurism.
but enough of the rambling.... gotta get a written report done by today