Thanks for the sympathies guys, it's really appreciated. I typically don't whine on social media about my problems, but this thread gave me a great outlet for bitching about what happens so thanks.
We wallowed on the couch for most of that day, but then my fiance and I did a last minute run to the store to fight the crowds and re-supplied, and she ended up making a tasty meal. I then I ended up getting some work done around the house, and on catastrophy, in addition to some much needed r&r on the couch, so we made the best of it.
An update on this story, today the police contacted my fiance and told her that they had found our golf clubs (after confirming their description) and they may have found more stuff.
Apparently a neighbor's grandson had been arrested for an unrelated crime, and when the police asked the grandma if there were any odd behaviors lately she said "he got two sets of golf clubs, and I don't know where from". She allowed the police to check out the clubs, and they matched the description of ours, so the police thinks they found the culprit.
After speaking with the neighbors about it over the weekend, apparently in the year there have been 4 burgleries, and one house that was for sale had been broken into and "partied in"!
I am wondering if all of these crimes were related to this guy, and there is a "detective working the case" who thinks so too!
They have the CSI:SVU on our case! Suburb Victims Unit!