just be ready to guide those kids if you do get into something more. you cant have sepperate lives from the kids. even you think ts just dating, its very dangerous when they have kids too. a wrong word, thinking out loud and stupidty since you dont have kids will occur. youll never be ahead of them (if shes sane) and it will especially mess with you if you are not ready. if you find a girl with out kids things will go much smoother but youll run into a different set of problems. you can never say shit to those kids (if shes sane) and that may kill you as well. there is so much shit that comes with it along with great stuff, but those kids look big already and they wont take your word as gospel nor will they change, like kids that are yours would. just be ready because it surely wont be just you and her.