I'm in the boat where I think these two games are really close to 'perfect' castlevania games. I love the control scheme of Simon in CV4 with the whip ability and directional options. I think that gameplay and level variations keep it separate from DracX so much that I have respect for each game.
If I made my top 3 Castlevania games it would go-
1a- Rondo
1b Castlevania IV
3 - Castlevania III
Depending on my mood, sometimes while playing Super Castlevania I think to myself- 'Damn this is the finest Castlevania game ever created!'...
I first played CV4 in 1992 when I picked it up for SNES, but never played Rondo until 1997 when I finally acquired it for the Duo. That 5 year gap had me playing CV4 when I was an impressionable 13 years old and I hit adulthood (a mere 18) when I finally got teh OBEY 'Vania realm.
This might skew my opinion on the games a bit, but I still usually dub Dracula X as the best Castlevania game of all times. If I had played it when it first came out, who knows how much it would have blown my mind of minds!!
Also, I really do enjoy Bloodlines and would rank it somewhere after the original NES game but slightly better than Symphony. Somewhere around the X68k/Chronicles and Castlevania Adventure Rebirth games.
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