It would seem that as a newbie, you have to pay your dues to make any headway... That has it's good points for sure. To some at first it can come across as a uppity click site, but if you move around the few turds then you can do just fine.... You have to not take things so personal and just move past the dumb. However for some they need proof of god having humor and it would appear that some members fit into those guidelines.... When you get right down to it, it's words on a page on a screen that can be turned off......