I love how these resellers all have the same cognitive dissonance:
1) be my friend and hook me up with buddy deals
VS.
2) what I do is none of your business
Like, hello, the trade-off of getting to know people, revealing information, and asking for favors is being held accountable. Either make friends and follow the golden rule or go to ebay with the other a$$holes and pay the fees. It's simple.