Doubtful to all the above except maybe the job theory,as he always seems like the type to have his priorities straight,as in get money and buy games,worry about girls afterwards. I have nothing but contempt for relationships these days myself. Mine tend to last 2-5 years at a time and I always want out of them in the end. These days I am really enjoying the freedom of just being by myself and just worrying about my kids,and not dealing with greedy stupid selfish jealous f*cking women. My last ex was extremely jealous of my kids when I took back custody of them. She started to treat them like crap,and had these double standards of her kids compared to mine like if one got into trouble. Needless to say I left that relationship.....