I don't beleive any male is born being female, or vice versa. Let's face it, we all have screwed up minds, me included, but, that doesn't mean that we just give in to what we think we're meant to be. There are people that have a tendency towards (inherited)substance abuse, does that mean they should just give in, & get drunk/high, or should they fight it? Some people are kleptomaniac's, should they just try to fight it, or just say "oh well, that's just the way I am"? We all have demons we have to fight.
There are gay people, that believe as I do, that no one is meant to be gay, so they fight the urges & wait for the time when God will blow up this world(so to speak) & cleanse it & cleanse our minds of imperfection. As for me, I have to continue fighting my attraction to other women in general. Women are so fricken beautiful, but, even if I wasn't married, I believe that lusting after women is wrong & destructive. I don't just throw up my hands & say, "oh well, that's just the way I am"! I'll be fighting the urge to look at other women for the rest of my life until Armageddon, that's something I have to live with(along with my other imperfections, like ocd & materialism). There are people that are obsessed with killing people, should they just give in?
I hope I don't offend, I'm just explaining my stance on the issue.