Ace, you can repair your ribbon cable. It's tricky, but can be done. It's just really thin copper in there, so what you want to do is take a hobby knife and scrape away some of the coating on either side of the break, then tin it, and solder on a bridge wire. Same deal as you'd do to fix a broken pcb. Your sticking gears... it sounds like you need to give them a bath in detergent, then rinse 'em really good and start with some fresh lithium grease.
Ace & Zeta, the kss-220a unit you find on ebay is mechanism + laser + ribbon cables, however, only the laser & ribbon is directly swappable into the TGCD/CDROM2. The mechanism is a different beast, and it takes a lot of work to get it swapped in. You have to hack/dremmel/etc the plastic case, move several (6?) caps on the pcb, and completely remove the rear power and line out jacks to make room for the kss-220a tracking motor. You also have to swap the polarity on the tracking motor feed. I've done it twice now, but it's not pleasant. Next time I do it I'll have to write up a howto.