wow, and here i was thinking this was a dead topic...
anyway, kevincal, i've seen your listings before, and pretty much laughed you off, seeing as the threads on the various forums were all just you saying "bump", and your prices were always high, or your postings were always disc only or something like that.
besides, as a seller, i figured that you, as a seller would eventually figure out that things are only worth what people pay, so posting a high price, then working down is only increasing your cost, making you less money.
as for your mom dying, i'm sorry about that, it really sucks, i know what it's like to lose someone important.
BUT, as a buyer, that's not going to do much, and it's more of a deterrent; it makes you look unprofessional.