i think i found the perfect lube,silicone. I bought a tube off ebay,TRA1647 Silicon Grease by Traxxas made for remote control cars servo gears and stuff.
Tested for many days on blueravens consistant 20 minute warm up unit. Now turns on right away. That silicone is super slippery even when i was applying it with a toothpick to the inside of the gear and axle it was slipping around. I applied alot but not too much. No sign of absorption by the gear.
Unit is being return now so it can be played the shit out of. Unsure if later on more silicone would have to be applied.
So if anyone doing this you need to slide off the motor gear carefully with your fingernail and then remove the tiny O ring that holds the middle gear in place. I used a combination of tiny screwdriver,fingernail and needle to lift it off. The O ring has a split on it so it can be lifted. be very careful not to touch the gear directly it is fragile and could break. It is very tiny and easy to loose so do this in a clean flat area in case it flies off from the pressure.
Once removed clean the axle with a alcohol swab. If you can clean the inside of the gear with a twisted tissue made to size but again it can split if too much pressure is put or if the tissue is to big so if you leave it alone that will be fine.
Now lube with a toothpick over the axle and inside of gear and place back the O ring.
Voila.
If you cant do this i have a full tube of silicone so i can do it for you just pay shipping back